Reuniting with your ex is only possible if you are able to reignite the same love and passion she felt for you when you first met. You will have to start all over again and will have to treat the relationship as new. Since you know your ex you will have the advantage of calibrating your approach so that your ex comes back to you. Here is how you can start the process of getting back your ex.
Don't dwell on the past
Since you have made it your life's mission to get your ex back there is no point in thinking of the past. All that you have to take from the past are lessons that you have learnt and not repeat the same mistakes. Once you put your past behind you it will be much easier to move forward with your plans.
Make the necessary changes
You are a good person with a few flaws that your ex couldn't stand. Now make it a point to eliminate each and every flaw that your ex pointed out during the breakup. Don't procrastinate with this step or else every other effort will come to naught.
Be large hearted
Your ex left you in the lurch and you are hurting. However, you have to forgive and forget as he/she must have some very compelling reasons to break up. No one breaks up just for kicks. Understand that as an individual your ex had his/her points of view which were not respected by you.
Action replay
Just travel back in time and remember what you did when you first started to woo your ex. You will have to do all that and more to woo your ex once again. If you were a very fit handsome guy then you will have to trim down and get athletic once again. Or if you were a lissome lass when you met your guy for the first time you will now have to shed the extra pounds to look pretty. This is the least you need to do.
Show that you have changed
Your physical changes will be easily noticed but what you will have to showcase is that you have changed inside out. The changes you have made in yourself as a person has to be demonstrated to your ex.
Become a romantic
During the course of your last relationship somewhere the romance got lost. Now you need to prove that you are a romantic at heart. If you are able to rekindle the same passion for your ex he/she will definitely come back to you.
Thank your ex
You will have to meet your ex and thank him or her for bringing to your notice all the faults that had crept in you as a person. This will please your ex and his/her resistance to coming back will be thinned.
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